Jeffrey Stien

Jeffrey Mark Stien

Monday, January 17th, 1977 - Thursday, August 20th, 2020
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U.S Marine Veteran

SEEKONK MA – Jeffrey Stien age 43 of Seekonk, MA formerly of Waterbury, CT passed away peacefully at home with his wife Melissa (Bellotti) Stien and his beloved dog Karma after an extended and valiant battle with cancer.

Jeff was born on January 17, 1977 in Waterbury, CT, where he spent most of his childhood before moving to Florida. He graduated from Sebastian River High School in Sebastian, Florida, and later earned a Healthcare Administration degree from Rhode Island College in Providence, RI. He proudly served his country with the rank of Lance Corporal in the U.S. Marine Corp, and he was employed by the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs in Providence, RI in the Compensation and Pension Department.

Jeff was a devoted husband who doted on Melissa and his “Baby Girl” Karma, a German Shepard he rescued two years ago. Jeff’s favorite places were the golf course and anywhere he could see the Patriots or Yankees play. He loved date nights, swimming in his pool, and watching movie marathons. He was most passionate about supporting other veterans and took pride in his work at the VA. Jeff enjoyed spending time with his family and friends, and he cherished all of the moments he spent with his niece Jade and his nephews JJ, Sonny, and Jonah. Jeff bravely fought brain cancer for almost a decade, and he never gave up hope that a cure would be found. He kept a positive outlook and embraced each day. He will be most remembered for his radiant smile, the sparkle in those hazel eyes, and his kind and compassionate spirit that will be missed by all.

Left to cherish his memory and honor his love and legacy, besides his wife of six years are: his mother Justine Tomasiewicz, his brother Jason Stien, his sister-in-law Judy Stien, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins and countless friends. He was predeceased by his father John Stien.

Funeral Services for Mr. Stien will be held on Wednesday August 26, 2020 at 10:30 AM when a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Basilica of the Immaculate Conception. Burial with full military honors will follow in the U.S. Veterans Cemetery, Middletown, CT at 1:00PM. Relatives and friends may visit with Jeffrey’s family for walk through visitation only on Tuesday evening from 5:00-8:00PM at Casey’s Eastside Memorial 1987 East Main Street, Waterbury, CT 06705. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made in memory of Jeffrey to support Dr. David Reardon’s GBM Research Fund at Dana Farber Cancer Institute PO Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284. Please write checks to Dana Farber and include Dr. Reardon in the memo section. To give online, please visit Memories endure only if you share them, so you are encouraged to leave a condolence, words of comfort or a personal memory with the Stien family on Jeffrey’s tribute page at
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  • Visitation

    Tuesday, August 25th, 2020 | 5:00pm - 8:00pm
    Tuesday, August 25th, 2020 5:00pm - 8:00pm
    Casey's Eastside Memorial Funeral Home
    1987 East Main St @ Southmayd Rd
    WATERBURY, CT 06705
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    Due to COVID - 19 regulations currently in effect, visitation for relatives and friends is WALK THROUGH ONLY
  • Service

    Wednesday, August 26th, 2020 | 10:30am
    Wednesday, August 26th, 2020 10:30am
    Basilica of the Immaculate Conception
    74 West Main St
    WATERBURY, CT 06702
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    Rev. James Sullivan
  • Interment

    State Veterans Cemetery
    317 Bow Lane
    Middletown, CT 06457
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Posted at 01:53pm
Jeff you were such a wonderful person. Your smile and sense of humor would brighten even the worst day. It was an honor getting to know you. I will dearly miss you. Melissa and family you are in my thoughts and prayers.


Posted at 06:21pm
Jeff, you were such an amazing and unique person... I will miss your smile , raw honesty, and all those corny jokes. Till we meet again...Rest in heaven dear friend! My sincere condolences to Melissa and all of Jeff's family.

With Love - Valerie Coles

Posted at 05:35pm
Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for the loss of Jeff... My thoughts are with Melissa and your family during this very difficult time.
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Sharon Croteau

Posted at 05:28pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Melissa and family and the Stien family during this very difficult time . We are so very saddened and heartbroken for all of you. We pray for your strength, comfort and peace knowing Jeff no longer is ill or in pain. He will be missed by all who were blessed to know him. He was so very special to us. Many Blessings to all & Much Love

Ed & Sharon Croteau & Family

Annette Amaral

Posted at 09:42am
Very sorry for your loss, I did not know him but I work at VAMC. Way too young!! My deepest sympathies!!

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