Mary Alseph

Mary Theresa Alseph

Friday, April 3rd, 1931 - Thursday, October 22nd, 2020
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WATERBURY –Mary Alseph, age 89 of Waterbury, passed away peacefully on Thursday October 22, 2020 at Waterbury Hospital, surrounded by the love and comfort of her family after a brief illness. She was the widow of John F. Alseph Sr.

Mary was born April 3rd 1931 in Waterbury, CT the daughter of the late Thomas and Anna (Farrell) Brennan Sr. Mary studied nursing at E.C. Goodwin School in New Britain and worked as an LPN at Bristol and Bradley Hospitals and retired from Meridian Manor Nursing Home. Mary also served as Coordinator for Persons with disabilities for the City of Waterbury from 1994-1998 Mary was a devout Catholic and active member of, Mary Mother of the Church Parish, SS Peter and Paul where she was a member of the Ladies Guild and served as a Eucharistic Minister. She was a long-time member of the American Legion Auxiliary Post 165 in Wolcott, and a member of the East End Senior Club where she helped organize the original group. Mary was also active in the Waterbury Neighborhood Council, the Republican Town Committee and the East End Community Club. She will be greatly missed all who were blessed to know and love her.

Left to honor Mary’s love and legacy are her children, John “Jack” Alseph Jr. and his wife, Maureen Burns of Waterbury, her daughter, Kathleen Howard of Bethlehem, and her son, Thomas Alseph and his wife, Maria of Waterbury as well as her son in law, Charles Lavandar of Colorado Springs. She also leaves 7 grandchildren and 11 great grandchildren. She was predeceased by her daughter, Patricia Lavandar and son in-law, John J. Howard as well as a grandchild.

Funeral services for Mrs. Alseph will be held on Thursday, October 29th 2020 at 10:00 at Mary Mother of the Church Parish, Saints Peter and Paul Campus. Burial will follow in Calvary Cemetery. There are no calling hours. Casey Eastside Memorial Funeral Home, 1987 East Main St. Waterbury, CT 06705, has been honored to assist the Alseph family during this difficult time. To honor Mary’s memory and in lieu of flowers, donations to ORTV, 15 Peach Orchard Rd, Prospect, CT 06712 would be kindly appreciated. Memories endure only if you share them so you are encouraged to leave a on-line condolence, words of comfort or a personal memory with the Alseph family on Mary’s tribute page at
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    Calvary Cemetery
    2324 East Main ST
    Waterbury, CT 06705
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Sharon Natale

Posted at 08:19am
Mary was strong in her faith and friendship. We met through the "Neighborhood Council" and I will remember her kindness.

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Posted at 09:30am
Tom and Family, Sending our sincerest sympathies to you on the loss of your Mother. With much sadness, All Your Friends at Arthur G. Russell, Co.
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Patricia McKelvey

Posted at 05:38pm
Our sincere condolences to Jack, Kathleen and Thomas. She is in heaven with her cousin Jack. Rest in peace Mary. Fondly, Pat and family.

helen mcgurk

Posted at 04:33pm
I met Mary once as a young girl in Wolcott. Our paths crossed again, many years later, when visiting my uncle Tommy when he was living in Torrington. Mary was a very devoted and caring person, it shone in her face.

Pat Marciano

Posted at 03:19pm
Jack I am very sorry for the loss of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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